FETISH AND BDSM - THE PHILOSOPHY BEHIND IT AND THE RULES TO FOLLOW
Not everyone is aware of the term BDSM and what it entails. Those who, on the other hand, are aware of it, perhaps after hanging out among the main categories of pornographic sites, have begun to develop rather controversial opinions about it. Of course, BDSM is not for everyone but there are those who approach with too many prejudices even before realizing that it is and it is difficult for them to think that, perhaps, ignorance will prevent them from discovering a world that could open wide. the horizons of the mind.
By definition, BDSM is a set of rather extreme erotic practices. A mix of roleplays that include the presence of domination, slavery, sadomasochism and various fetishes. The majority who associate with this type of activity are men, who get excited about bonding women in artistic bondage demonstrations (Shibari) or who like to switch from dominator to submissive. If you believe you have a tendency to BDSM, I recommend that you hire Turin escorts.
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B(Bondage)
D (Discipline / Domination)
S (Submission / Sadism)
M (MASOCHISM)
WHY ARE FETISHES SO COMMON?
Asking this question is legitimate, even if a little naive.
The human being is a totally imperfect machine. We are all different and cannot predict what the other will like. Many hide behind various moralisms to escape the criticism of others, while maybe in reality they would like to lick feet from morning to night on a beautiful woman or be penetrated by an Asian girl as in anime and manga. The truth is normality lies in being atypical. It is the nature of man. And in sex we tend to vent our whole repressed self, as dear Freud also theorized. As long as there is pleasure, there is real sex.
Gloria Brame, a sexologist and BDSM practitioner, explains how 'normal sex' and 'weird sex' are two non-existent concepts.
BDSM is simply a subculture derived from sadomasochistic sexual behavior that has always shown itself over the centuries and that has come down to us through history. So it is a fairly contemporary practice. But, like all subcultures, it is difficult to get accepted by the world `` above '' and explain what BDSM and Fetish are hiding. Concepts that seem difficult to understand at first, but which are actually direct and unfiltered.
THE RULES IN BDSM RELATIONS
BDSM encounters can be both casual in nature and similar in nature to long-lasting relationships between couples.
It will surely have occurred to newbies how to start a similar path and how to get there; maybe a young teenager who has understood that he is attracted to this world but who has not yet acquired any kind of experience.
I state that there is the SCC code , at the base of everything: that is, respect comes before pleasure. And the safety of the partner is an essential element. Trust, as in any relationship, is what keeps relationships going. It is no coincidence that the game is beautiful when it lasts a long time ... but in compliance with the rules.
It is no longer about 'safe' RPGs once any kind of damage is done, be it physical or psychological . This is why it is necessary to have a good knowledge of what you are doing and to acquire an advanced technique, developing self-control during sexual intercourse. However, in cases of emergency, there is the so-called safeword , which if pronounced puts an end to the practices implemented up to that moment.
Then there is the Rack, Risck-Aware Consensual Kink , a “consensual and risk-aware” practice. The partners push themselves beyond the limits and the safeword is not always accepted, but doing so risks being involved in unpleasant situations (even causing death).
So, if you are going to do any of the things listed above, remember that consent comes first and that we must respect everyone as human beings.
THE MOST PARTICULAR BDSM PRACTICES
Below I propose the list of BDSM practices that not everyone knows:
- Self Bondage
It refers to the use of material to self-bond and increase the erotic pleasure one feels in being helpless. It is necessary to use well-selected equipment especially if it is a question of applying iron or other tools on the body or if you need to squeeze tightly in potentially dangerous areas.
--Shibari
The shibari confirms what has been written in a few more paragraphs, on the fact that history has handed down information about the fetishes of men of the past. In fact, this is a real Japanese discipline evolved from the techniques of a martial art created to immobilize prisoners of war. He entered the Japanese erotic imagery during the Edo period.
- Pissing
Also known as golden shower , pissing consists of urinating into the partner's mouth or body for erotic purposes and is often accompanied by ingesting the urine itself. Historically, it is thought to be a practice related to the myth of Danae. It is similar to Scat , only the latter involves the use of human feces.
- Mummificazione
It consists in completely wrapping the body of a consenting subject with materials such as latex or electrical tape, in order to still offer a minimum of movement capacity. This practice is inspired, as you may have already guessed, from Ancient Egypt. It also leads the mummified subject to lose consciousness due to the use of visual bandages or ear plugs.
- Ball busting o ‘’CBT’’
This is the favorite practice of all the Mistress escorts out there. ''CBT'' stands for Cock and ball torture and you can already imagine what it consists of. The fetish and BDSM enthusiast boy who is reading right now, will be touching his family jewels; who, on the other hand, is already an expert, will be enjoying just the idea of being kicked on the testicles. This practice also includes the use of wax, genital electrostimulation and all the masochistic practices that come to mind. One thing is certain: all this could lead to significant health problems.
- Trampling
Finally, we talk about Trampling when women barefoot or with shoes with heels begin to walk comfortably on the submissive body, starting from the top down and vice versa. The goal is to cause pain by walking on areas that are more susceptible to pain such as the back. From a psychological point of view, this practice brings to mind memories related to the childhood of the submissives who were bullied by the thugs, who sat on top of them.
THE WOMAN'S POINT OF VIEW
We always talk about men and submissives, but what do women think? Today's women have conflicting opinions on BDSM practices: some say that BDSM practices fully express female sexual freedom, like those who have based their careers on this; while others see it as the subjugation of women, and therefore a consequence of the influence of the patriarchy.
Looking at it from an objective point of view, it can be said that both women and men are managing to free themselves from their mental conjectures day after day and let themselves go exploring their most hidden desires.
The important thing is to know each other, feel good about yourself and avoid unnecessary taboos at all costs.