Men, how do you want to be courted?
Not all men are the same, even if women assume that they are the ones who, in order to have a night of sex, would be satisfied with anything. Man's mind is more complex than one thinks. Even the man can also say "no" if he does not feel totally involved, even finding himself in front of a splendid Taranto escort.
The ways in which the man wants to be wooed, however, change not only according to the type of character but also whether they are in a relationship or not. The single man is freer and tends to have a more open vision of things, not yet knowing the potential partner well; the man who already finds himself in a relationship wants to continue to be 'looked after' by his lover, who often has to solve the problem of seeing him tired, distracted or in the throes of mood swings.
Wooing a married or engaged man in bed can be a daunting task, and conventional methods of rekindling the spark won't solve the problem, such as preparing his favorite dishes to tempt him. Why not think of something wilder instead?
Here are the 4 hottest moves engaged men would like their mates to do to set the mood:
Pole dance
Man's fantasies of pole dance are rooted in decades. Yes, salsa and tango are also synonymous with romantic/seductive dance, but not everyone likes these and are considered a bit old-fashioned. Pole dance, on the other hand, sees only the woman's body as the protagonist. What, then, is more stimulating for men? Your woman becoming a pole dancer is an interesting method of stimulating arousal in your partner. Make sure you make every move correctly, as there is a very specific technique involved. Wearing sexy clothes as you rotate around the pole, highlighting your curves, is very seductive and will leave your lover in awe, din when all she can do is ask for more.
Pole dancing also makes women who practice it feel good. Feeling sexy and desired while dancing increases your self-esteem. And feeling for one night like in adult films broadens the boundaries of perverse fantasies, benefiting the sexual life. All the men who witnessed a lap dance with or without a pole said they got aroused in less than a minute. Successfully seduced! Even couples who have been together for years can notice the differences between before and after. The important thing is that beginners pay attention during the dance, as they could run the risk of injuring themselves and making a bad impression, obtaining the opposite result from that desired. If you are not yet able to 'climb' the pole, it is also useful to maintain a correct posture and move sinuously to the rhythm of sensual music.
It porn
That men like porn are no secret, and it is the first thing that would come to mind if you want to get sparks under the covers after a lull. Is behaving like porn stars really what men expect from their partners?
Although not all of them have the character to behave as such, seducing a man and making him believe he is a panther is not difficult. Just flatter yours in the most seductive style possible, just the way he likes it, and put a porn video on TV. It's one of the most effective ways to spice up love life, and for him, seeing his woman agree to something transgressive is even more exciting. The woman is eager to try new shows and moves like never before, for the man it is an unrivaled pleasure.
Perform your fantasies
The woman who lets herself go to hidden fantasies and sexual stimuli outside the box, makes the man exalt to excess. Men in a relationship want to be surprised day after day by innovative things within the couple: they want a woman who plans sensual games, expresses their needs and their extreme fantasies, and gets seduced in turn, after giving the excitation input. It's a great way to woo the man even initially showing some signs of "not being in the mood tonight".
Those who have never been open to their mates about their sexual desires have brought discomfort in bed. It is okay to fear for the relationship, but in some cases, the exasperation of a secret can cause the breakup. Being more direct makes both women and men feel better. Being realistic about your sexual fantasies doesn't mean offending the other, but always trying to communicate with respect. And if a weaker side of yours is revealed in the other, perhaps it would be better to opt for another method of flirting.
Spa effect at home
Many women who see their tired husbands on the couch, sorry for not having made love to them, don't know how to react. In this case, the perfect solution would be to give him a spa experience. What is the spa experience? Using fragrances, aromatic oils, relaxing massages to stretch the muscles and introduce the couple to a night of the fire, even if he has revealed that he is too exhausted to have sex after returning from work. A home spa setting, whether it's in the bedroom or living room, can be a good idea. To recreate a mystical atmosphere, you can use candles, flower petals, soft music, soft lights. To do everything will be the warmth of the woman's hands that will reach his body and make him come to his senses.
In conclusion...
Man loves smiles, fun, open-mindedness, and loves to see the more transgressive side of his woman. He wants his woman to ask for his help, to communicate with him without shame, to appreciate his hobbies without prejudice, and to be sweet but courageous.
These are the real elements that will help carry on a relationship based on trust and good sex.