Why do you have to pay man when you go out for dinner?
At the end of the evening, the fateful moment arrives ... and no! Let's not talk about the slightly spicier one, but let's talk about what the Americans call '' the bill ''. A moment that is not hot but that definitely makes the backside gnaw. So, let's imagine a beautiful Milan escort woman and her client staring at the receipt after drinking champagne, who's going to pay the bill? Obviously to the client, but not because he is a man (as the common imagination dictates) but because among the basic requests of an escort, the additional costs must be faced by the client. All time! This too is a costly element to be respected according to the service received, but it is also a pillar of the world of seduction, among the fundamental laws of the jungle of the woman looking for a man.
What if, on the other hand, it was a woman who does not practice the profession?
We are used to seeing the man pay because, as our grandmothers could easily tell us, once the family income depended directly on the pockets of the head of the family, the one who brought the bread to the table and ran the shack alone, at least economically speaking. Unfortunately, this condition has impressed itself all too well in the norms of our etiquette.
So, two salient points have been taken into consideration so far: service and etiquette. Two reasons why it is traditional for men to pay at the end of dinner.
Today, however, the female role in society has finally begun its rise and many women choose to split the bill equally, or even decide to pay the entire amount instead of the man.
Between friends, it's definitely different, because you start from a solid knowledge base and there is no need to show your best side, like when you want to impress your crush. It is difficult, among other things, that more than a certain amount is spent when a friend goes out. euros, even for cocktails on Saturday nights. And if the friend decides to offer, in that case, chapeau! Refusing this type of offer would be a real outrage to etiquette.
Therefore, a clear distinction should be made between paying the bill between friends (very obvious) and between that of a gallant dinner ... not to mention the first date.
Make a woman feel like the real protagonist.
The woman is looking for a man who is not afraid to come forward, who is bold and eager to conquer, filter, have fun. Although a negative meaning is now associated with the noun 'bravado', in the world of seduction this characteristic is fundamental for several reasons, including courtesy. That is, the absence of a swagger would risk leaving room for boredom and bad manners, causing a sense of discomfort in the other person and convincing him to avoid the second date.
But does the woman really need to feel like the protagonist?
Isn't that a bit sexist in reasoning?
What's sexist about wanting to be wanted and treated well? Isn't that what everyone, both men and women, aspires to?
Gallantry should be the basis of any relationship, sentimental or otherwise. We should follow the rules of respect and not those dictated by erroneous stereotypes, served up daily by the exhausting external sources that surround us.
Women, like everyone else, enjoy receiving gifts.
The act of offering is a magnificent gesture, practiced since ancient times. Let's think of Ulysses when he met Nausicaa and was welcomed by the citizens with endless gifts ... (and he was a poor unfortunate!). The act of offering does not imply any contract or duty towards those in front of us: it is a choice and above all a correct move to win the woman's trust more quickly. However, you should continue to treat your woman fairly if you want to avoid being sent to that country.
Friendliness and respect are fundamental in every area of life, and above all, they do not oblige the woman to give anything in return.
A pleasant situation for the woman, who will be convinced that she is not next to an unscrupulous stingy, but a man with a big heart.
Analyze the situation.
If we are talking about couples at the beginning, it is normal for the two lovebirds to feel embarrassed at the time of the settlement. Carrying money around is still very important for the woman, regardless of who she is next to. The universe sometimes makes fun of us! Maybe the partner could happen to have left his wallet at home or, worse, to have lost money on the street. Usually, it is the man who proposes himself first at the moment of closure, by way of an automatic gesture, yet nowadays it is less and less frequent because many women believe that paying is a sign of independence.
It actually is, but there's nothing wrong with getting someone else to pay your bill. Your autonomy is not affected if you allow someone else to settle the bill.
Some surveys have shown that a large portion of the female world, right now, does not care that much that it is the man who pays, but the 'split of account' option is becoming more and more widespread.
If they are stable couples, who over time have reached such confidence and maturity as to bypass certain mechanisms, they even pay the bill without managing the money on a scheduled basis, forgetting who paid what and when.
Only men particularly attached to traditions do not tolerate that it is the fair sex to show money, and this is at least 40% of the male population, in reference to the above statistics.
It is also true that in the face of beautiful women, many men are overwhelmed by the desire to spend a night in their company and are even willing to go crazy, unfortunately even men whose salaries do not reach exorbitant levels. For a big entrepreneur or a VIP, of course, it is easier to sleep at night after spending five hundred euros in a starred restaurant. But for an average man, who may have to deal with several users, it is not really suitable.
In these cases, one should ask oneself what one's priorities are. If economically you cannot do it, it is useless to contact an escort who is working on a profession.
In conclusion
A woman who waits for the man to pay is neither humiliating nor incomprehensible.
Gallantry improves relationships, the woman is attracted to the generous man but she also knows how to appreciate his efforts, without taking them for granted. Women do not forget: they know how to pay off, in the most beautiful ways (and no, we don't mean sexual ones, because a woman knows how to be special even before she gets under the covers).
The man notices the attitude of a cooperative woman, and is very excited by it, whether he is an open-minded or traditional man.